
Think about your financial knowledge. How did your parents talk about money with you? What financial lessons did you learn the hard way? You may feel that talking to kids about money is uncomfortable. Perhaps you feel unqualified, or don’t want to teach them the wrong ideas. But you are not alone. Nearly half of all parents are somewhat or very reluctant to talk about money with their kids.
But imagine the kind of people you want your children to be. How do they handle their money? Do they have the same habits as you? How will they make major life decisions?
How your child answers these questions in the future will depend on a lot of factors. One of the most important ways you can help your child make the right decisions is to help them be comfortable and competent when talking about money.
Below is a list of the essential conversations to have with your kids, ideas for teaching kids about money (at any age), and some insight into how the parents talk to their kids about money.
First, A Financial Pep Talk for Parents
One of the biggest reasons why financial literacy is such a challenge in the US is because it’s not always normal to talk about, let alone talk about with your kids. Here are some of the common reasons why you might be nervous to talk money with your kids, but why you should anyway:
It’s rude to talk about money.
You may have been taught that it’s rude to talk about money, and perhaps you still hold that notion.
In his book, The Opposite of Spoiled: How to Talk to Kids About Money, personal finance writer Ron Lieber writes that the silence around money can come from several emotions including, modesty, shame, envy, and fear. While these emotions about money are very real for a lot of people, that doesn’t have to be the case for your kids, if you discuss it with care.
I can’t talk to my kids about money; I barely know what I’m doing.
More than 40% of parents have never had any formal financial education. Wherever you are in your financial journey, you still have an opportunity to set your kids on the right path early.
I don’t want my kids to see how much we’re struggling.
This is a tough one. Letting your kids in on the realities of your finances can feel like taking off the superhero costume.
Personal finance writer Beth Kobliner says that it’s natural that parents may feel nervous talking to kids about their money. However, kids just want to be reassured that everything is going to be okay. They don’t need all the details about your circumstances. Instead, help them understand why you’re having these tough conversations about money and the reasoning behind your good decisions.
It’s too late to get started.
Dear parent, who may be feeling like the worst parent ever because you haven’t talked to your kids about the inner workings of your 401(k), do not fret…
While financial experts agree that starting children off early leads to better financial literacy later, arming your kids with the knowledge to make sound financial decisions can come at any age.








