Tim Connolly

Pregnancy can be hot. In fact, with 40% more blood pumping through your body in order to nourish your baby, combined with the effort it takes to carry around an extra 20 to 30 pounds, your pregnant body is bound to get hot because of all the work it is expending. This also means that you sweat more and dehydrate more easily.

Even your heart has to work harder. Keep in mind, that it enlarges a little during pregnancy and moves to the side to accommodate the fact that your uterus now occupies more space in your body. Its increased size and new location means it also is working harder.

Consequently, with all these changes it is only natural that your body is working harder to cool your entire system. For this reason, it can be particularly easy for a pregnant body to overheat quickly. And, when this happens, both you and your baby could be at risk for complications.

What Is Considered Overheating?

When your temperature rises to 102 or 103 degrees Fahrenheit, this is considered overheating or hyperthermia. Typically, this temperature is caused by dehydration, spending too much time in the sun, or sitting for too long in a hot bath. But, sometimes there is an underlying medical condition, an illness like the flu, or an infection that causes such a high temperature.

Either way, overheating is not something you should ignore. Regardless of the root cause of your elevated temperature, when your body overheats, it is important to seek medical attention right away. There are too many risks associated with overheating to simply ignore your high temperature and hope that drinking some water and sitting in front of a fan will bring it down.

Symptoms of Overheating

Sometimes pregnant women will overheat and not even realize that their internal body temperature is elevated, especially on a hot summer day. Still, it is important to pay attention to how you are feeling. Getting overheated while pregnant can be a big deal, especially if the high temperature is prolonged. Here are some signs that your body may be overheating:

• Feeling weak, tired, or lethargic
• Experiencing dizziness or like the room is spinning
• Feeling lightheaded, off balance, or like you might faint
• Experiencing extreme thirst, dehydration, or reduced urine output
• Feeling sick to your stomach
• Experiencing chills or excessive clamminess
• Sweating profusely that does not stop despite attempts to cool off
• Feeling like your mouth is filled with cotton or very dry
• Having cracked, dry lips

In extreme cases, you may even begin to vomit or even experience painful contractions. If this happens, do not delay in getting medical attention right away.

Causes of Overheating in Pregnancy

While there are any number of reasons why you may begin to overheat, there are some factors that are more likely to elevate your body’s temperature than others. For this reason, it is extremely important that you use caution when you are pregnant, especially when it is hot outside or you are in a warm area. Some examples of contributing factors include:

• Being physically active for an excessive amount of time, especially in hot conditions
• Walking or hiking for a long time on a very hot day
• Participating in strenuous exercises for an extended period of time
• Engaging in exercises in a poorly ventilated gym or workout area
• Sitting in a sauna or a hot tub
• Spending long hours at the beach or pool on a very hot day
• Soaking in a very hot bath for an extended period of time
• Developing an infection or an illness like the flu
• Getting a really bad sunburn

Risks Associated With Overheating

At first, overheating may not seem like that big of a deal. After all, when you aren’t pregnant, you usually just need to drink more water and cool off if you feel yourself getting hot. But when you are pregnant it is not always that simple. Your temperature can rise quickly if you are not careful. And if it does, there are a number of risks to both you and your baby.

In fact, research indicates that when your body temperature reaches 103, that it can lead to neural tube defects in your baby, which usually means that the neural tube fails to close after 25 days of conception.

Overheating has been linked to fetal growth retardation, intrauterine deaths (stillbirth), and neural abnormalities. Finally, a high fever also can lead to a cleft lip and palate in the baby. Here are some additional ways that overheating can impact you and your developing baby.

Causes Dehydration

When your temperature is above 102 for longer than 10 minutes, both you and your baby will be impacted. It also can cause you to become dehydrated and when that happens it can put a strain on the liver and the kidneys for both you and the baby. In severe cases, dehydration can cause swelling of the brain, kidney failure, seizures, and even death. For this reason, it is important that pregnant women drink at least eight to 12 glasses of water a day, and sometimes more when factoring in exercising and hot climates.

Impacts Amniotic Fluid Levels

Amniotic fluid, found in the amniotic sac, is what surrounds the baby and protects it from the external world. It also is what allows the baby to move freely and develop. And it plays a crucial role in helping to regulate the temperature so that your baby does not get too hot or too cold. But when a pregnant women overheats or becomes severely dehydrated, this can impact the level of amniotic fluid available to the baby. When this happens, there is a greater risk of birth defects, miscarriage, and even pre-term labor.

Causes Pre-Term Labor

Overheating later in pregnancy can lead to pre-term labor or irritable uterus. With an irritable uterus, contractions can feel like Braxton Hicks, but sufferers are nearly twice as likely to go into labor early. Not only can dehydration result in pre-term labor, but it also can lead to complications such as a compressed umbilical cord.

Increases Urinary Tract Infections

Overall, pregnant women are more prone to urinary tract infections primarily due to hormonal changes. Combine this with the fact that dehydration and overheating also increases the likelihood of UTIs, and you can see why the chances of getting a UTI are a natural consequence for pregnant women. And, when left untreated, research has shown that UTIs have been linked to low birth weight and pre-term labor.

Tips for Avoiding Overheating

You probably already know that you shouldn’t sit in a hot tub or spend any time in a sauna when you are pregnant. You may even know that taking a really hot shower or bath is not a good idea. But what may surprise you is the fact that you can get overheated taking a walk on a hot day, especially if you are dressed too warmly. It’s also easy to get overheated during your exercise class, especially if the gym is hot or poorly ventilated. Here are some additional tips to help you prevent overheating.

Stay Hydrated

While everyone should drink more water, for pregnant women staying hydrated is particularly important. Water not only helps keep you cool, but it also helps reduce swollen hands and ankles. Try carrying water with you wherever you, especially if you are traveling. Do not wait until get thirsty to drink water because by then it may be too late.

Staying hydrated also means you should cut out caffeine as well. Most doctors indicate that you should avoid caffeine while pregnant. Aside from the impact caffeine has on your developing baby, it also increases blood pressure and the temperature of your body. It also can lead to dehydration, especially if you are drinking soda instead of water. If you really just cannot stomach the idea of another glass of water, try adding fruit like lemon or orange to your water, or opt for a smoothie instead.

Avoid Prolonged Exercises

In fact, you should not exercise more than 45 minutes at a time and stick to low-impact exercises. Water aerobics is a great activity to do while you are pregnant because it not only puts very little stress on your body, but it also takes place in a cool and refreshing environment.

But if water aerobics is not your thing, be sure that you exercise in a cool, well-ventilated area. For this reason, you should avoid exercise environments that are intended to be hot like “hot yoga.” Remember, if you are overexerting yourself for extended periods of time or working out in extremely hot or humid conditions, chances are high that you will overheat. Doing moderate exercises in normal temperatures results in a minimal increase in core body temperatures.

Wear Loose Clothing

When choosing your maternity clothing, the key is to look for light and loose clothing. You want to wear breathable, natural fabrics such as cotton. You also should look for things that fit loosely or “flow” with your body. These types of garments allow the air to circulate. It also helps to make sure your shoes allow your feet to breathe. Even if it is winter, you want to wear comfortable shoes that allow your feet some room. Also, keep color in mind too when choosing your clothes. Black tends to absorb sunlight and make you feel warmer when you are outside. Meanwhile, sunlight bounces off light-colored clothing.

Eat Cool Foods

Water-rich fruits and vegetables can do wonders at helping you keep cool. Some good options include melons, berries, cucumbers, oranges, and grapefruits. Even raw lettuce, celery, and carrots can help keep you cool. If you want something a little different, try popsicles made with fresh juices or a cold soup. Even a little natural yogurt with fresh fruit can be a cooling choice. And while ice cream sometimes isn’t tolerated by all pregnant women, if you are able to eat, it can be a refreshing treat as well.

Look for Shade

If you live in or are visiting, a hot climate, be sure you take precautions. Staying outside in the hot sun can be taxing on your body even if you are diligent about your water intake. As a result, try to limit the amount of time you spend in extreme summer heat. Try going outside in the mornings or in the evenings when the sun is not as hot and the temperatures are cooler. And, if your area is experiencing a heat advisory, be sure to do what you can to stay inside in a cool environment.

If you have to be outside at a family event or a work function on a hot day, look for some relief from the heat. Stay in the shade if you can. And, if the opportunity to go inside exists, take advantage of it. There is nothing wrong with sitting in an air-conditioned house or in front of a fan while you are pregnant. If you are at a park and there are limited options for cooling off, limit your stay or take a break in the car with the air-conditioner running. You should never feel bad for taking the time to cool off. Doing so shows your wisdom and responsibility when it comes to being pregnant.

While the risks of overheating are real, this does not mean you have to stay indoors all the time or avoid exercising. In fact, you absolutely should get outside and enjoy the fresh air. What’s more, exercising during pregnancy is encouraged for most pregnant women. As long as your doctor says it is OK, you should be able to exercise in moderation in a cool environment. Just be sure to stay cool and hydrated. And, listen to your body. If something feels off, do not push yourself. After all, you have a growing baby inside of you to consider as well.

As well as with yoga, you must focused on your Kids nutrition and ensures a well balanced combination of protein, calcium, iron and the B vitamins in their diet.

When you’re an hourly worker, parental leave is seldom guaranteed, but a patchwork of solutions can help.

The Gist

• Get educated about your eligibility for job-protected, unpaid leave under the Family Medical Leave Act and equivalent state and city laws.
• Check your employee handbook, calculate your sick leave and, if you’re in a union, see if it has negotiated parental leave. 
• Know your rights concerning pregnancy discrimination and accommodations for pregnancy-related disabilities, including recovery from childbirth.
• Call a legal hotline so an attorney can advise you in advance, and find an advocate in your community.
• Talk to co-workers to see what leave they got; and when you tell your boss about your pregnancy, take notes and be on alert for discriminatory remarks. 

Although decades of research have shown that all parents need time off to care for their child — and to care for themselves — one in four American women returns to work less than two weeks after having a baby.

Of the nearly 20 percent of people who work part-time, two-thirds are women in low-wage jobs. Many hourly or low-wage workers can’t afford to take unpaid time off — and few get paid leave. Only 4 percent of the lowest-paid private-sector workers get paid leave, compared to 27 percent of professionals. The United States is one of only two countries in the world without a national paid family leave policy. And while the federal Family Medical Leave Act gives eligible workers the right to 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected time off, it covers only 60 percent of the workforce.

For this guide, I consulted researchers, sociologists, women’s rights advocates, an economist and attorneys to find out how hourly workers can understand and exercise their rights to parental leave. 

Know your federal rights

Under the F.M.L.A., you are eligible for 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected time off only if you work for a company with more than 50 employees within a 75-mile radius and have worked at your job at least 1,250 hours (24 hours weekly) during the previous year. Married or unmarried workers, regardless of sexual orientation, are eligible if the child is biological, adopted, a foster child, a stepchild, a legal ward or a child of a person acting “in loco parentis” — in place of a parent. Jared Make, senior staff attorney and director of LGBTQ rights at the legal advocacy organization A Better Balance, said, “Generally, if you’re raising a child and engaged in day-to-day parenting responsibilities, you are acting in loco parentis and can qualify as a parent for bonding leave.” A Better Balance has an overview of LGBTQ rights under the F.M.L.A.

Federal law gives you rights even before you give birth: The Pregnancy Discrimination Act and Americans with Disabilities Act make it illegal for employers with 15 or more employees to treat you unfairly while you’re pregnant or, in certain cases, if you have a pregnancy-related medical disability, such as gestational diabetes or cervical incompetence. 

Know your local rights

State and local laws may provide additional benefits. California, New Jersey, Rhode Island and New York provide paid family and medical leave benefits covering most private-sector workers in their states, said Molly Weston Williamson, senior staff attorney at A Better Balance. Washington State and Washington, D.C., will provide paid leave in 2020, and Massachusetts will do so in 2021. (See this quick reference chart.) The organization also has a guide to search your state rights nationwide.

In 25 states, the District of Columbia and four cities, laws require employers to provide reasonable accommodations for pregnant workers. If you are terminated right after birth, that could also be considered pregnancy discrimination, Williamson said.

If you live in California, New Jersey, New York, Rhode Island, Puerto Rico or Hawaii, you may qualify for Temporary Disability Insurance. “This law gives you the right to money in your pocket to partially make up for the loss of your paycheck when you’re unable to work due to ‘off-the-job’ — meaning not workers’ comp — illness or injury,” said Williamson. Your benefits may kick in if you have a pregnancy-related disability. “When you have given birth, your doctor will certify you for a period of time as disabled for purposes of T.D.I.,” said Williamson. Women in these states can organize maternity leave this way: disability benefits for recovery from childbirth followed by paid family leave benefits for bonding. The terms and the amount of money you get differ per state.

No federal laws guarantee paid sick leave, a worst-case option. Check to see if you live in one of the 11 states or district that have paid sick time laws on the books. 

Assess Your Situation

Think hard about your relationship with your boss and whether you feel safe coming forward, said Shilpa Phadke, vice president of the Women’s Initiative at the Center for American Progress: “The power dynamic between your boss and you is real.” Understand the dynamics of the workplace, and see who else has taken leave, Phadke suggested.

When Melissa Carlile-Price, an actor and restaurant worker, told her shift manager at Union Square Café in New York that she was pregnant, the manager immediately asked her what she needed. She wanted to work eight hours maximum and no double-shifts. Management agreed. In her third trimester, her manager kept her on the first floor so she wouldn’t have to climb stairs. These concessions made pregnancy while waiting tables more tolerable, she said. “The management team was constantly checking in on me, making sure I was comfortable, drinking water and getting breaks.” She wasn’t eligible for F.M.L.A. leave, but the human resources department guided her and her husband, a caterer, through New York State’s Paid Family Leave, which gave them job-protected paid time off.

Not everyone is so fortunate.

Clayshawn Wilson had been working for six months as a relief manager for an ezStorage facility in Maryland when she delivered her fourth child. Because she did not qualify for F.M.L.A., she returned to work five days after the birth. “I couldn’t afford to lose my job,” she said. She took three days off without pay, in addition to the two unpaid off-shift days she had. She suffered from severe back and belly-button pain, and although her doctor had asked for accommodations, she received none, she said.

She spent her days cleaning storage doors and bathrooms, sweeping, vacuuming and renting units. Terrified of being homeless with four kids, she did not quit. But things did not end well. The company fired Wilson, who went on to collect unemployment. Calls and messages left for Nancy Delach, ezStorage’s HR manager, were not returned.

Unionized workers have some protection against being dismissed from their jobs if they ask for leave, unlike their nonunion counterparts. “It’s also safer for them to make the request,” said Ruth Milkman, professor of sociology at the City University of New York Graduate Center. “Under most union contracts, workers can only be fired for good cause — in contrast to nonunion workers who fall under ‘employment at will’ and can fired at any time,” she said.

If you don’t feel safe coming forward individually, consider banding together with others, suggested Vicki Shabo, vice president at the National Partnership for Women & Families. Under the National Labor Relations Act, employers cannot retaliate against employees for talking about their benefits with one other. 

Prepare before telling your boss

Remember that you’re asking for something reasonable and be ready for a variety of reactions. Our experts recommended the following approach:

Go into the conversation with eyes open. “Talk to employees who have been through it before, bring it up with human resources, check employee handbooks and make sure you’re up on federal and state law,” said Elizabeth Gedmark, senior staff attorney and director of the Southern Office at A Better Balance.

Go in with a plan. “If you work at a retail outlet, maybe there’s another employee who works part-time who would be willing to pick up extra shifts,” said Morris. Reassure your boss that you’re committed to the job, and that your job is critically important to your family’s financial security. “For most decent human beings, hearing that someone’s income is critical to putting food on the table and a roof over their baby’s head, that will go a long way.”

Take careful notes. “When you go in to talk to your boss or HR about your pregnancy, write down the date, time, who was there and any comments that may have offended you,” said Gedmark. “Note if your boss said ‘Joe had surgery and needed time off — but we can’t do that for you.’ Write down anything that can be considered ‘discriminatory intent,’ ” she said.

Email those notes to yourself on your personal email. They should be time-stamped.

Stress that turnover costs make you worth keeping. If you earn less than $30,000 annually, it costs 16 percent of your salary to replace you. Remind your boss of indirect costs. “It matters if everyone in your shop knows that you fired a pregnant woman who asked to take a month off work,” said Morris. 

If you have to quit to get leave, stay in touch. “Even if you don’t have job protection, tell your employer that you will reapply for your job after you have the baby, and stay in touch while you are on leave, so they don’t forget you,” said Brown.

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A YouGov online survey created in collaboration with NYT Parenting found that some parents are going into debt to pay for child care.

After the birth of her second child, Erica Jefferson of Rapid City, S.D., was faced with a choice: Pay her student loan bills or pay more than $1,000 a month for day care. She chose the latter.

Keeping her job — she works as a claims processor for a funeral insurance company — was a necessity. Her husband, a veteran, was injured in the military and cannot work or physically care for their 18-month-old.

“That became a real struggle for us,” she said.

Having already exhausted her ability to defer her student loans, she opted for forbearance, a repayment option that typically requires only interest payments, but fell behind on those payments as well.

“My kids, they always have clothes on their backs, new shoes — they’re always well fed — but for me …,” her voice trailed off. “I have to pay day care. I have to pay rent.”

Ms. Jefferson, 32, is certainly not alone in the struggle to pay for child care. While there has been a lot written about the high costs of child care in general, we wanted to learn more about how day care and preschool expenses are affecting parents right now.

NYT Parenting worked with YouGov, an international polling and market research company, to create a brief online survey that offers a quick, informal snapshot of the costs faced by parents of children around the country enrolled in preschool or day care. Of the 1,027 parents who responded, 28 percent reported that day care and preschool expenses were a “very significant financial strain,” and 20 percent reported going into debt to manage these expenses.

[Finding the right day care can be a long journey.]

According to YouGov, the median amount spent on preschool and day care was $400 a month, and 22 percent of the parents said they spend $1,000 or more.

YouGov collected the data between Aug. 1 and 6, drawing respondents from a database of 1.2 million people who agreed to take online surveys. The survey represented parents from a cross-section of the country, about half of whom reported living in a city.

One limitation of the study, aside from its small sample size, was the use of unverified self-reported data gathered online. In addition, when the respondents were asked about their day care and preschool costs, they were not asked to distinguish whether their costs derived from day care, preschool or both.

The survey did not include costs associated with nannies or babysitters, which can also drain a family’s finances.

Child care has become one of the biggest expenses faced by families in the United States. According to the Economic Policy Institute, annual infant care, on average, costs thousands of dollars, ranging from about $5,400 in Mississippi to more than $24,000 in Washington, D.C.

The costs are so great, they can absorb one person’s entire salary.

Maya Polack, 35, of Scotch Plains, N.J., left her career as a high school teacher in 2014 after her family was confronted with the high cost of child care.

“We looked at day care costs and quickly realized my salary would solely be for day care, gas, mileage, etc.,” she said. “So we had to ask ourselves: Do I love work enough? Because I would be working to keep our son in day care.”

Ms. Polack, now a mother of three, said she made the right decision for her family.

“In the end, it’s wonderful because I get to watch these three crazy monsters grow up,” she said. “For me, going back to work wouldn’t be a break from the kiddos but rather dealing with 200 more kiddos. And I really don’t see how I could have been a great teacher while being a great mother because of how much time is carved out for the students.”

Other parents said they try to navigate the huge burdens of child care by spacing their children far enough apart to minimize day care costs.

Despite the high costs involved, day care workers barely make a living wage. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the average hourly wage for child day care services is $11.11.

Kristy DeConti, who owns Natural Learning Community Children’s School in Weatogue, Conn., has a master’s degree in early childhood special education and two decades of experience working in child care. Her yearly salary amounts to about $30,000, she said, and her seven employees earn between $13.25 and $16.50 an hour.

“I struggle with the same things everybody else does. I have $40,000 in student loan debt. I have two children. I have to pay for before- and aftercare for my older one,” she said. “But I don’t think people see that side of it.”

Ms. DeConti’s 3-year-old attends her day care, which saves money, but also reduces the number of children she can enroll.

“If I filled that spot, then that’s almost $13,000 more that I could be making a year,” she said.

Connecticut voted this year to raise the state minimum wage to $15 by 2023.

“I mean, I just don’t even know what I’ll do,” Ms. DeConti said. “Each year we’re trying to slowly increase tuition so we don’t lose a lot of families, but at the same time me and my family are barely surviving financially because of that.”

As for Ms. Jefferson in South Dakota, she said she fell so far behind on her federal student loans that this year the Internal Revenue Service took her entire $8,000 tax refund, money her family was counting on to replace a car that had broken down.

But in recent months, after earning extra money from overtime, Ms. Jefferson has begun making payments toward her student loans again. Her family’s budget still remains tight.

“I’m supposed to get paid tomorrow,” she said in an interview last week. “And right now I’m trying to figure out how I’m going to pay some of the bills, and buy food and diapers.

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